Preparing Your Child for the First Day with a New Nanny
Welcoming a new nanny into the family can be an exciting new chapter, but it may also introduce anxieties for your child. Whether they’re toddlers or school-age, kids thrive on routine, and adding a new person can feel like a big, scary change. At SF Nannies, we’re sharing practical steps to prepare your child for their first day with a new nanny. With some early planning, open communication and a dash of creativity, you can ease this transition and set up a lasting foundation for a happy relationship between your child and their nanny.
1. Discuss the New Nanny in Advance
Children often feel more secure when they know what to expect, so discussing the arrival of a new nanny well in advance is an essential first step. Start by explaining the new nanny’s role in an age-appropriate way. For younger kids, you might describe a nanny as “someone who will play with you, keep you safe and help you have fun while Mommy and Daddy are busy.” Older children might benefit from more detail, such as learning about the nanny’s experience and overall responsibilities.
If possible, show your child a photo of the nanny before they meet for the first time. For an even smoother transition, arrange a brief meet-and-greet or video call ahead of the first day. This allows your child to get used to seeing their face and understanding their personality in a low-stakes setting.
2. Set Expectations with Your Child
Establishing easy-to-understand expectations for your child helps them better anticipate what to expect with their new nanny - how they should behave. Reassure them that their nanny will care for them in ways similar to you, but also highlight that their nanny may have new activities to explore together.
It may be helpful to outline the day’s general structure, like when they’ll play and eat, so your child knows what to expect. Involve them by asking for their input on small choices, like a favorite game to play or book to read. This collaboration can make them feel empowered as they adjust to the nanny’s care.
3. Create a Comfortable Environment
Making a comfortable environment for your child on the first day with a new nanny is critical to building trust and calming their nerves. Begin by surrounding them with familiar, comforting items like their favorite toys, books or a beloved blanket.
You may also encourage your child to “introduce” the in-home nanny to their favorite activities. For instance, they can show the nanny their favorite toy or explain how they like their bedtime stories read to them.
4. Be Nearby, But Mostly Hands-Off
On the first day with a new nanny, it’s natural for kids to seek your reassurance from their parents. Being nearby at the start of the day can help ease their anxieties, but it’s equally important to step back and give the nanny space to build a bond with your child.
You can start by spending some time together as a group. This allows your child to see that you trust this new nanny. Gradually step away while staying available they need a quick check-in. Unless absolutely necessary, avoid hovering or jumping in.
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Preparing your child for their first day with a new nanny can feel like a big task, but with thoughtful planning and a little patience, you can make the transition positive. And with the friendly childcare professionals from SF Nannies in your corner, you can rest assured that your new nanny is building a strong, lasting relationship with your child that benefits your entire family. Contact our San Francisco team to learn more today.
